1. They’re good listeners
Charmers immerse and focus themselves in what the other person is saying. They aren’t busy thinking of a rebuttal or a response. They don’t interrupt people while they’re speaking. Instead, they make people feel like they’ve been heard.
2. They speak clearly
They take their time to think about each sentence, avoiding any unnecessary fillers that will make them unclear. These good communicators speak confidently, precisely, and deliberately.
3. They ask for advice
When someone asks for your advice, it shows that they value your opinion. Asking someone to share their area of expertise helps boost their confidence. And it will likely make them think of you more favorably and memorably.
4. They’re authentic and genuine
People seek someone who is real since they know they’re trustworthy. If you’re likable, you know what makes you happy. And that makes you more interesting and appealing to people.
5. They ditch their phones
In order to really make a positive impact on someone, you have to put your phone away. When someone is charismatic, he makes you feel like you’re the most important person in the world and uses the chat as an opportunity to learn about you.
6. They use your name in conversations
Who doesn’t like to hear the sound of their name? A charismatic person remembers people’s names and greets them with it.
7. They don’t name drop
They may remember names but they don’t squeeze in the name of celebrity they just met into every conversation. And that makes them even more likable.
8. They acknowledge others’ accomplishments
Who doesn’t want to be recognized and appreciated for something they did that they’re proud about? Notice these good doings and you’ll be sure to be remembered favorably and positively.